Kai’s journey to embrace her true self began in an unlikely setting—a home rooted in evangelical Christian values. “When she was born, I was a fervent participant in the Baptist ministry and a staunch Republican Tea Partier,” recounts Kimberly, who initially punished Kai for her inclination towards dresses and dolls. Persistent even in the face of adversity, Kai would insist, “You know I’m a girl,” a statement she began making at just three years old. Kimberly recalls a poignant moment when, at four years old, Kai prayed alone, wishing not to live if she had to continue as a boy. This led Kimberly to finally allow Kai to embrace her identity openly from kindergarten, including legally changing her birth name and living freely as a girl.

Kai displays a remarkable sense of fearlessness and an innate ability to open hearts and minds. The documentary showcasing her story has amassed nearly 3.3 million views on YouTube, inspiring viewers worldwide, including a man from North Carolina who orchestrated a global show of support for Kai, sending her a “40-pound box of love” filled with letters from every continent. Kai’s public appearances, including on shows like “Today” and networks like HBO and Fox News, further amplify her message. During a visit to Washington, D.C., her spontaneous interaction with Texas Representative Pete Olson, who opposed the Equality Act, highlights her ability to connect unexpectedly and meaningfully, even with those on the far right.

This year began with AISD’s Pride week, where Kai, after a screening of “Trans in America,” took to the stage to express her gratitude towards the school’s principal for supporting the LGBTQ community, introducing herself with a playful twist: “My name is Kai Shappley, and my pronouns are her, she, like the candy bar!” Renowned for her undaunted spirit, Kai is a profound influence in activism, with an authenticity that resonates deeply with those she encounters. “Her sense of self is the foundation of her activism, something not commonly found,” observes Amy Bench, the film’s cinematographer.